April 2012
rhymeswithnothing: cabell replied to your post: pleadingthefilth replied to your photo: Lil Boba… I totally own Pearl Harbor. I remember this because, LOLWOW inappropriate nail polish name much? :p I KNOW RIGHT when I bought I was like “Jesus on the mainline” and whenever I mention it I feel like I need a disclaimer lolol. I DIDN’T DO THIS. Who the fuck thought this was a good idea? Oh & did...
Apr 1st
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rhymeswithnothing: cabell replied to your photo: Lil Boba Fett Gosh I have so many geeky plushies… Awesome side effect of having a baby: excuse to buy MORE PLUSHIES. PLUSHIES FOR ALL I tutor kids so I buy children’s books that I may or may not ever read to them I mean, to keep up with them you believe me right OF COURSE. My picture books Amazon wish list is like twice as long as my regular...
Apr 1st
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While sitting on my bed sobbing about how everyone...
thestoutorialist: failedblackwoman: As if to tell me “It’s okay.”  Thanks dog.  This is one of the reasons I have pets.  They understand that sometimes I need a loving paw and/or head butt of love. I remember years ago when I had food poisoning, my cat Bart very lovingly expressed his concern by breathing his disgusting cat food breath right into my open mouth as I huddled in my...
Apr 1st
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My spouse playing with AJ this morning (with special guest appearance by Stinky Pete).
Apr 1st
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racismschool: wtfwhiteprivilege: Melissa Harris-Perry: “How White People Can Talk About Trayvon Martin I was prepared to hate this. I figured she was going to be one of mine that had to be collected in the name of “Satire.” I am glad I was wrong and…can each and every person who sees this, commit this list to memory and use it not only in the Trayvon Martin case but ya know, always?
Apr 1st
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March 2012
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Speaking of my rad stretch marks...
…when I was pregnant, they kind of made my big round belly look like a flower.  Now, as noted, they look more like big flaming wings on either side. It really makes me want to get, like, a skull tattooed over my pubis or something to connect with them, except that a) blood thinners and b) god knows how subsequent pregnancies would wreck that.  Better bide my time.
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“The Dianics are upset that we’re challenging their practices and they are...”
– Sonneillonv of Dreamwidth, about a ritual at Pantheacon that was restricted to “genetic women only” (via ragnell)
Mar 31st
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I can haz IUD!
I got the copper one (Paragard), because: Progesterone seems to make my migraines worse.  Mirena is obviously not systemic the way that Depo (or pregnancy) is, but I didn’t want to risk it. It took nine months to have a period after going off Depo, and then I had a period every two weeks for THREE MONTHS without ever ovulating; I finally required Clomid to make my body actually ovulate....
Mar 30th
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My dad, telling me a story about his misspent...
Dad: ...so it was the middle of the night, and my friend Mike and I were trying to find this guy we knew, so we drove out to the beach.
Me: "Trying to find this guy you knew"? Did he have something you needed?
Dad: Well, PROBABLY... of course, we were already stoned out of our minds.
Mar 30th
@evelark
evelark replied to your post: How dare people with children or mobility impairments take up space My bus system has the same policy with strollers. I’m not sure what the reason is. Still, there’s no reason for the driver to be that rude about it (or the walker). I think the issue is that strollers take up space for which PWD have first priority—and it’s definitely important that that...
Mar 30th
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I don't think my spouse has ever had insomnia.
Like, yes, dear, I know that I should go to bed.  I would LIKE to go to bed… but not if it means lying there staring at the wall for 3-4 hours. If I’m going to be awake, I might as well be tumbling. …Also reading Tony/Steve.  DO YOU KNOW HOW LONG IT’S BEEN SINCE I HAD THE TIME AND FREE HANDS NECESSARY TO READ TONY/STEVE.
Mar 30th
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look people calm down okay
rhymeswithnothing: he didn’t say the N-word, I listened to the video. You should all be ashamed of yourselves. He said Niggurath. Niggurath. He’s just a big Lovecraft fan.
Mar 30th
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Haha, "small child in our neighborhood"...
Small child in our neighborhood, looking at AJ in the front carrier: She has very small toes.
Me: Yes, she does.
SCION: She has very small heels!
Me: Yes, she has small feet. Well, actually, they're kind of long. But comparatively.
SCION: She has very big thighs.
Me: That's because she has super strength.
Mar 30th
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“Adrienne Rich has been a very special friend and critic. She has read the...”
– Janice Raymond, The Transsexual Empire, acknowledgements. Adrienne Rich wanted trans women denied medical care. Adrienne Rich wanted Sandy Stone removed from Olivia and driven out of the feminist movement. Adrienne Rich provided “constant encouragement” to a call for our end. (via tal9000)
Mar 30th
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Santorum called Obama the n-word on television....
maevele: thefremen: arulpragasams: popca: zorascreation: kyssthis16: nom-chompsky: steviemcfly: On a completely different note, I’m in a good mood. I drank tonight without smoking, I’m acquiring a taste for wine, and goodnight kiss. whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat Wait, what?!?!!?!?!? WHERE!?!?!?!??!?!?! HE DID WHAT!!!!????  ...
Mar 30th
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How dare people with children or mobility...
So today I took the bus to campus to teach, and for the first time ever caught shit from a bus driver for having a stroller.  He first didn’t want to let me on the bus because it was “full” (there was no one standing when I got on, and several open seats)—he informed me that the “new policy” is that all strollers must be folded, which I figured was probably...
Mar 30th
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You know
maevele: kiriamaya: I don’t celebrate people’s deaths. I hate it when anybody dies; it feels awful. But sometimes, I confess to find it hard to feel any sympathy or sadness for the death of someone… like, oh,  I dunno, someone who helped co-write Janice fucking Raymond’s anti-trans screed, seeing as how Janice Raymond was the one who ensured that it was next to impossible for trans* people to...
Mar 30th
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White Man Kills a Black Couple with Kids because... →
life-thebeautifulstruggle: My heart breaks reading this. vivalaevolucion: HAS EVERYONE SEEN THIS? This happened recently. The story goes that this father was playing outside with his kids and went to go talk to this guy(the white man), because he was shooting his guns  in the area where they were playing. The white man came over and shot him in the head FOR NO REASON. Did the same thing to...
Mar 30th
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But whyyyy don't people ever talk about black on...
rhymeswithnothing: caffeinatedfeminist: IDK MAYBE BECAUSE IF A BLACK PERSON COMMITS A CRIME AGAINST A WHITE PERSON THE JUSTICE SYSTEM GOES: OH HANG ON WE GOT THIS. DEATH PENALTY FOR YOU. DEATH PENALTY FOR YOU. AND A DEATH PENALTY FOR YOU. Seriously, people. Come on. Lolol more like we talk about black on white & black on black crimes all the fucking time. Turn it on MSNBC at about...
Mar 29th
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come on up to the house: i'm actually glad i know →
queershoulder: And honestly, I was never much a fan of Rich’s work to begin with. Maybe a decade ago, I read an essay of hers about lesbians & desire that made me hopping mad (about how real lesbians want feminist sisterhood and not sex — it just really took the sexuality out of lesbianism,…
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Mar 28th
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I still have three papers to grade and a lesson...
She wouldn’t sleep last night either, but she at least sacked out around 9:30.  She shows no signs of doing so at the moment. Of course she waited for my spouse to be out of town to suddenly give up sleep.  He comes home tomorrow and as far as I’m concerned he can be on bedtime duty until the fourth of July.
Mar 28th
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@merchimerch
merchimerch replied to your post: Filled out the form to request all my labor & delivery-related medical records. I’m so sorry that happened. I hope you find a better hospital option for the next pregnancy. I felt very supported in natural childbirth @ Sutter maternity/surgery center in Santa Cruz, Ca. Also Bartlett in Juneau, AK sounds similar. Thanks.  Honestly, the hospital (Meriter in...
Mar 27th
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Filled out the form to request all my labor &...
I’ll have to wait until tomorrow to mail it from campus, and then it will probably be about two weeks before I get the records. If it turns out that there was documentation that the placenta didn’t come out intact, I might reconsider my legal options, but either way, I need the records to file my multiple complaints against the doctor. Every time I think about her following me into...
Mar 27th
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Yet Another Kiri Bloggish Thing: respectissexy: I... →
respectissexy: I am so fucking sick of people using totally disingenuous concern for me and my well-being to fuck over trans women. NEWS FLASH: Trans women, statistically, are zero likely to attack me! When I worry about being attacked in any capacity, trans women are not who I worry about!
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Mar 26th
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New resource from the TSA for trans travelers and...
silas-says: fuckyeahftms: http://transgenderequality.wordpress.com/2012/03/16/tsa-posts-info-for-trans-travelers/#more-1430 “TSA Travel Document Checkers will check to ensure that information on your ID matches your boarding pass, however it does not matter whether your current gender presentation matches the gender marker on your ID or your presentation in your ID photo, and TSA officers...
Mar 26th
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approximately infinite universe: Woman demanding... →
dumbthingswhitepplsay: abaldwin360: RICHMOND HEIGHTS • Anna Brown wasn’t leaving the emergency room quietly. She yelled from a wheelchair at St. Mary’s Health Center security personnel and Richmond Heights police officers that her legs hurt so badly she couldn’t stand. She had…
Mar 26th
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Best (mid-semester) student eval comment ever:
“Moar Iron Man pics” At least a few people enjoyed my slash lecture. :p
Mar 24th
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Life Lessons
karnythia: Had a conversation with kid #1 (12 years old), about how to handle himself if he’s been stopped by the cops, or someone like Zimmerman. Somewhere in the middle of explaining how to protect his head & neck if a cop decided to kick his ass (happened to my husband when he was 13), and how to respond if a cop calls him a nigger (happened to me at 12) I had this sudden ridiculous urge...
Mar 24th
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The Bullet Next Time: An Open Letter to My Unborn,... →
Mar 24th
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“Every time you see someone sticking up a 7-11, the kid is wearing a hoodie. […]...”
– Geraldo Rivera, defending George Zimmerman and placing the blame on Trayvon’s choice of apparel. (via jonathan-cunningham) Not only on choice of apparel, but on choice of walking on the street as a black youngster. You walk to the other side of the street because you are a racist, Geraldo! (via...
Mar 23rd
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TWIT AS A SCAR: YOUR OTP ARE NOW YOUR PARENTS. HOW... →
froggysan: boobie-licious: romanorgasm: doriima: Asakiku Best daddies ever y/y Antonio and Lovino huh very very interesting i wouldn’t be too fucked, i would be loved, eat alot of awesome food and have tons of fun, hell yeah. Shizaya. No… Bad parents. I WOULDN’T… Tony Stark as my father would explain so much… and Steve Rogers as Dad #2 would explain my spouse. :p
Mar 23rd
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Want to help a Black honors student stay in...
so-treu: black-candy: I’m pretty much screwed and can’t register for classes and probably won’t be able do it until August (fall semester starts September). I’m on a scholarship and I have grants that pay for my tuition, but I had to get a loan for housing, and it doesn’t cover all of it. I need $1,000, and if I’m not registered for classes I could lose my scholarship, which means I won’t be...
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